Feeds:
Posts
Comments

Burden Bearing

attitudematterscover

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2 NIV).

When we become a burden-carrier for others, we need a deep faith along with an extreme prayer life. We cannot shoulder everyone’s burdens. We are not made for that; only God can carry everyone’s burdens. We are made to listen to the cares and concerns of our believing brothers and sisters. If a brother or sister sins, they may want to talk to someone about it. And when we realize they are confessing sin, we should pray with them. Don’t judge them; that is God’s job.

Our job is not judging, but to exercise our attitude of love and forgiveness. Galatians 6:1 says, “Brother and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.” Two key words point to what our attitude should be, they are ‘restore’ and ‘gently.’

When we discover that someone has betrayed the faith we had in them, it is easy to fall into a quick judgment of the situation. Often we find it easier ‘to be done’ with that person rather than give them a chance to explain or repent. I learned a long time ago that excuses are like belly buttons ― every body has one. And you may have to sit and listen to a litany of excuses from an offender until they see the fallacy in the discussion. When God puts a mirror in their face they have no choice but to look themselves in the eye. Then they finally realize that they are merely dodging responsibility. They need you to still be listening.

They may ask you to go to the foot of the cross, pray with them, and plead forgiveness. Beyond that, they need you to support them in their journey of restoration. This will take time and effort on your part. Not only that, it might affect your reputation. There are Scriptures that warn not to even eat with such a person and others may decide that Scripture applies in your situation. If God has called you as a burden-bearer for this person, go deep into your prayer life and trust God rather than men.

Sometimes you will want to walk away, and maybe for a short time you should. But then go back and check on the progress of the restoration. It will be worth it in the end; when you know you’ve done the right thing. An attitude of love is rich with opportunity.

On the other hand, there may come a time when you need to share your burdens. Choose wisely with whom you share personal information. A fellow believer should respect your confidence, but be sure to pick a mature believer. Bathe the situation with prayer and ask the Holy Spirit to lead you as you share.
Isaiah 61:1-2 prophesizes Jesus’ coming, “The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor and day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn.”

So what should our attitude be? The person whose burden we carry should see us as serious and trustworthy. And that should be our attitude. However, in our deepest prayers we may confess an attitude of unworthiness and ignorance about how to restore the person. Thankfully, we can ask God to lead us through the valley of uncertainty. He knows every detail of the situation and nothing is a surprise to Him. We can faithfully do our part and be confident that God will honor our efforts.

Father in Heaven, give me strength and wisdom today regarding the people around me that need someone to listen. Show me how I can help carry their burdens so I can glorify You and fulfill the law of Christ. Amen.

This is an excerpt from the forty-day devotional, “Attitude Matters”. Click here to order.

Click here to check out my website!

Advertisements

Teamwork

teamwork2

“For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others” (Romans 12:4-5 NIV).

In any team sport, the players must exhibit an attitude of team work. Ask any football player about teamwork. The quarterback cannot do everything. He needs protection and he needs a good receiver to take the ball into the end zone. Teamwork is paramount in order to win a game.

I remember attending our basketball games when I was in high school. There was one person that wanted to make all the shots. He got tired and began messing up, but refused to share the ball. Once our team member learned to share the ball, we made more points and won more games.

This attitude of teamwork must exist in the body of Christ. Not everybody is called to preach. We all have different gifts. If someone has the gift of prophecy, then allow them to use that gift to glorify the Lord and don’t condemn them for it. Some people have a servant’s heart. We often depend on them without ever thanking them. God values them for their great sacrifice and humility. We should too.

Some have the gift of teaching, so let them teach. Some people seem to be natural encouragers, something all of us need from time to time. And then some people constantly look for ways to help other people, so let them do it and do it generously. If someone has the gift of leadership, let them lead. And if you know of someone who has the gift of mercy, be blessed and let them do it cheerfully. We must use all of these gifts of God to glorify Him. Our generous God has given most of us more than one gift. Don’t value one gift more than another and only use that gift.

Your church may be like my high school basketball team. You may be gifted in the area of leadership, but another person gets asked to organize every event. They are great at it too ― until they get burned out or overloaded. Perhaps you will have to sit on the bench for a while, willing to go in when needed. The team members on the bench are members of the same team and their availability is key to the success of the team. You may find that after you have been faithful in small things, when called in to substitute, you will be playing more and more often.
The very idea that God has gifted each of us so that we are equipped to work hand-in-hand with Him to further His kingdom is incredible! He is the leader; we are each part of the team.

You may be jealous of another person’s gift. Drop that attitude immediately. Jealousy is sin. Condemning another teammate is the same thing as undermining the game. As one member of God’s team, we ought to do everything we can to support the team. That means cultivating an attitude of teamwork with our fellow believers. Cheer them on and discover ways we can use them to further God’s Kingdom. When you discover your own special gift from God, add it to the resources used to glorify God.

Father God, I praise and thank You for the many gifts You have bestowed upon us for the sake of the Kingdom. Help me find my own gift so that I can contribute to the team. If necessary, grant me patience to wait in reserve. Those who wait on the Lord also glorify Him. Thank You for giving us each other. Amen.

This is an excerpt from the forty-day devotional, “Attitude Matters”. Click here to order.

Click here to check out my website!

Guard Your Heart

guardyourheart

“Guard the good deposit that was entrusted to you—guard it with the help of the Holy Spirit who lives in us” (2 Timothy 1:14 NIV).

Everyone has regrets. Paul is writing to young Timothy, warning him that the good deposit that was entrusted to him could be taken away. When we are young, we tend to make mistakes as we try to find our way around in this world. We have learned expensive lessons simply because we made wrong choices.

Paul could certainly identify with making choices that he regretted later. Some of those choices included the hunting down and killing of Christians. Whether we make these wrong choices out of ignorance or rebellion, we still suffer the consequences of sin. Paul did amazing things when he finally converted. I often wonder how much more he would have done if he had turned around sooner.

One event Paul never forgot was when he stood and watched Stephen die. Paul held the coats of the men stoning Stephen and cheered with the rest of the crowd. He saw Stephen pray while men stoned him, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” And then Stephen fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this he fell asleep (died). And Saul [Paul] was there, giving approval to his death (Acts 7:60).

Our lives are important to God, but sometimes we don’t make choices that enhance our lives. Rather than study, we play. Instead of applying ourselves, we fritter the days away. We knowingly take bad advice. We watch television programs that do not glorify God or the way He would have us live. We sometimes treat ourselves as though we are worthless. It’s as though our decisions as to how we might serve our Mighty God succumb to earthly do-nothingness and the opportunity is lost for the day or, sadly, for all time. God has a plan for us. He has made a way for us to be reconciled to Him because we are valuable to Him.

In this verse Paul tells Timothy to guard his heart. In other words, be on the lookout for what may damage him spiritually, and avoid it. I’m sure that goes for the physical, too. Protect what God has given you; it is a gift that no one can duplicate.

You may be asking yourself what guarding your heart means. We are surrounded by negative influences over which we have little control. I’m speaking of media and other sources of advertising. They seek to destroy your contentment and often your purity. We need to guard our hearts from the people we associate with. We must have an attitude of awareness. Be sure that non-believing friends are not influencing you. If you have friends that you know aren’t good for you, perhaps you should move on. If you find yourself in uncomfortable places, leave. Then avoid those places. Guard your heart.

Any deposit that God has given you is valuable. Sadly, many Christians take His generous gifts for granted and fail to protect them. You are valuable and your relationships are valuable. There are always thieves who want to steal anything valuable. Therefore, we need an attitude of awareness that any gift bestowed by God makes it valuable. We need an attitude of alertness, too. “Your enemy the devil prowls around like a lion looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). So be as alert as you would be if a lion was loose and looking for you. Peter continues with advice to resist the devil. James promises “Resist the devil and he will flee from you” (James 4:7)

My husband offers this practical advice that he learned early in his Christian walk. The devil is tricky. In our sexually permissive society, the devil can easily put men in a provocative situation where for some reason they cannot flee. God always provides a way of escape. Recognize the devil’s involvement. Repeat over and over to yourself, “Greater is He [Jesus] that is in me than he [the devil] that is in the world” (1 John 4:4). As your thoughts turn to Jesus and you keep repeating the verse the devil will flee. He hates the name of Jesus. The devil will return and try again. However, the more faithfully you do this, the longer he will wait between attempts.
So let your attitude be one of awareness and always be ready to escape.

Lord Jesus, keep me from the attacks of the evil one. Keep me in Your will and hold me close as I pray and ask for protection and wisdom. Remind me that this body and the Holy Spirit is Your precious gift to me. Help me guard my heart. Amen.

This is an excerpt from the forty-day devotional, “Attitude Matters”. Click here to order.

Click here to check out my website!

A Funny Thing Happened

Me – flying the shuttle! I finally got to be an astronaut!


On October 22nd I will present a message titled, “A Funny Thing Happened To Me On The Way to Heaven,” to the congregation at the evening service at Alma Temple. The service begins at 6:00 pm. Beginning at 6:30 pm the message will be on live radio broadcast on KPOF, AM910 and audio streaming via the internet. You are cordially invited to join us. Alma Temple is located at 1340 Sherman Street, half a block from the state capitol building, Denver, Colorado.

Hope for the Best

japansunrise

“And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us” (Romans 5:5 NIV).

“Hope for the best,” my mother used to say. And I would ask myself, “Why would anyone hope for anything other than the best?” If not the best, why spend the effort to hope at all? One of the saddest things I have ever observed is a person with no hope. You see, an attitude of hope comes when we have made peace with God through faith.

Paul tells us that once we have repented of our sins and accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we can now “boast in the hope of the glory of God” (Romans 5:2). And then Paul goes into an explanation of how we arrive at an attitude of hope. In verses 3 and 4 he tells us that it begins with our own suffering. Paul says we glory in our suffering because we know that suffering produces perseverance. I can identify with this as I recall suffering through several different scenarios throughout my life. One was the loss of a job. I had been with the company for eight years and they let me go for what they said were political reasons.

It came as a great surprise, but as it turned out, I discovered things about myself that I didn’t know. I could survive and I did. I have an awesome God who brought me through the experience wiser and stronger. I can rejoice because I know that whenever I face trials, He is building my character. I certainly didn’t know the plans God had for me. But, as usual, the prophet Jeremiah was right. They were “plans to prosper me, and not to harm me, plans to give me hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11).

Romans 5:4 tells us that character produces hope. Paul explains why we have hope. He says that it happened at just the right time, when we were still powerlessly living in our sin; Jesus died for us ― the ungodly. And then Paul goes on to explain that very rarely would anyone die for a good person, but someone might possibly care enough to die for a good friend. God showed how much He loved us because he died for us while we were still sinners! We were enemies of righteousness when He chose to take on our sin and become the ultimate sacrifice.

Because we have been justified by His blood, we are saved from the wrath of God! We have been reconciled to God and we can always “hope for the best” because it is the Very Best that saved us. People with an attitude of hope have an air of confidence and that extra little sparkle in their eyes! And that confidence is because we have the gift of faith. “Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see” (Hebrews 11:1). Through faith we let our attitude of hope and confidence shine brightly.

Dear Lord, thank You for Your sacrifice on the cross for my sins. I praise You for Your plan for me and the universe. Because You have given me faith, I will not be ashamed of the hope You have put into my heart through the Holy Spirit. Amen.

This is an excerpt from the forty-day devotional, “Attitude Matters”. Click here to order.

Click here to check out my website!

On October 8th I will present the second part of my message titled, “From God’s Perspective,” at the evening service at Alma Temple. The service begins at 6:00 pm. Beginning at 6:30 pm the message will be on live radio broadcast on KPOF, AM910 and audio streaming via the internet. You are cordially invited to join us. Alma Temple is located at 1340 Sherman Street, half a block from the state capitol building, Denver, Colorado.

From God’s Perspective

On October 1st I will present a message titled, “From God’s Perspective,” to the congregation at the evening service at Alma Temple. The service begins at 6:00 pm. Beginning at 6:30 pm the message will be on live radio broadcast on KPOF, AM910 and audio streaming via the internet. You are cordially invited to join us. Alma Temple is located at 1340 Sherman Street, one-half block south of the state capitol building in Denver, Colorado.

%d bloggers like this: